He’s Too Big to Carry

I reached out my arms tonight to pick my up sleeping son. Instead of waking him to walk, I’d just carry him to bed. Like countless times before. His face, wearing the same expression he would make as a sleeping toddler, crinkled in misery, eyebrows knotted. He stretched and tried

Busted Hands Along the Way

Certain moments in childhood stick out vividly and center around visceral emotions interwoven with our connection to someone. And I hold numerous memories of when my father, a fence man by trade, would appear in the door holding his hand. Then, stumbling to the sink, a splattered of red dots

He’s No Longer Mine

My “little” boy’s carefree childhood days are numbered. I feel it. He talks now of science and PEMDAS and a burgeoning love of algebra. He wants to be an engineer. And “the best basketball player ever.” He’s been in his first playground fight. And, embarrassed, told me that he hears

Crying in the Car After an IEP

After leaving my 10 year old’s IEP re-evaluation where he was afforded 30 minutes of weekly Occupational Therapy after 8 years of slow going Speech services, I drowned myself in a terrific, relief-induced sob fest alone in our family sized Ford Expedition as I drove through town. At a particularly

Teachers Make a Lasting Impact

During a 45 minute elementary classroom observation today, I was treated to a theatrical, energetic ELA teacher with an obvious love for what she does. The children, 23 of them, were dissecting their recent chapter of Treasure Island while learning about character development, building imagery with words, prequels vs. sequels,

The Rhinestone Cowboy

Yesterday I took a road trip to Augusta, GA, with my Mom and Dad. And the best part of a road trip with 70somethings? Decades old memories that arise. Especially as we were squeezing through some big rigs doing 80 down I-20. DAD: “Hey you think those truckers still talk

Live Together, Love Together

It was 5:15 pm on a cold Friday in early November. I had spent about 4 hours at the kids’ school that day (2 different trips), with ever present 3 year old Juli by my side. Kevin had just arrived home from his shift with the power company. I hadn’t

Mama’s Backpack

She giggles and calls herself “Mama’s Backpack”, happy to hop on and tag along wherever I go. She never complains. Seldom cries. I can count on two hands the number of meltdowns she’s ever had. She’s obedient to the point that it’s humorous. And a tad frightening. Perhaps the universe

Hugs Every Morning

The clock on the microwave read 7:23 am. Three year old Juli, wearing bedhead and a night tee, walked up and whimpered “Somssing…hurt…me.” She tried to crawl in my lap. Then stopped. Dressed in a night shirt, I was rummaging around an overflowing laundry basket hunting pants for my 7

When You Give a Mom a Hug

Ten years ago today I was a new SAHM, nine weeks pregnant with my first baby, Jack. I have no idea what I did on Oct. 18, 2007. Probably went to the fair. Wrote a blog post. Cooked baked spaghetti. All of the “firsts” of pregnancy and early motherhood were

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